I love the subject that I am about to talk about because it is so simple when you think about it although we make it oh so complicated. Making life decision. The cute little nose you see between the fence is my pigmy goat Chicken. She is named Chicken because she gets out of the fence that is suppose to hold the livestock in and hangs out with the chickens. Nothing holds her in! The reason I chose this picture is because you can only see part of her. You can tell she is white, has a nose and mouth, but most of the details are hidden. You would have to investigate the situation, gather more information to understand the whole picture.
I recently had a session with a young women that had questions about her education and future regarding school choices. Her question to me was "Do I stay here in the school that I am presently enrolled in or change schools and transfer to Hawaii?" Yes, of course lets get past the obvious answer of... Hell Yes! Lets go to Hawaii! giggles..... It really isn't that easy for most people though, right? When I do a session I get snippets of information in pictures and words. The information that I received was if she stayed here she would quickly fall in love and be totally involved in family life. The sensations that I received where of being swept away with the whole experience of family, being in a unit of people. Having the experience of being in a group, strengthening relationships, but, also a watering down of her independence because the purpose of that path was building a family. On the other hand, if she was to go to Hawaii, I had a vision of her walking the beach alone, picking up shells that symbolized her choices, she was very peaceful. There where so many choices. The choices where available because she took the time alone to learn about herself and her strengths. Moving away from home allowed her to broaden herself and her opportunities that would impact the rest of her life. Still allowing her to have a family later in life if that is what she decided she wanted. The picture of the little goats nose represents the small pieces that you can see at the beginning of making a decision. As life unfolds after the decision making is done and you are actually in the experiences created by the decision, that is when you can see the whole picture. Making a decision about a life choice has two parts. Decide which way to go, then decide to completely have the experience with no regrets.
As you can see, neither choice is right or wrong. Some of you who read this will feel one choice is better and some the other is better. This is due to your own experiences and longing for experiences that you feel you may have missed out on. For her there is no right or wrong path. The clips of her life that I was shown where possibilities that where available for the moment that she was asking. People will ask me what decisions they should make about specific situations. My answer is, it is not my place to tell you what to do. I can offer snippets of what I see the future holds, but our future is constantly changing with the decisions we make each minute. Everything matters, even our thoughts impact our opportunities. Ever changing.
What I am to say next is in my opinion of how things work. I am not here to convince anyone to believe what I believe. I have come to this conclusion by way of seeing how our loved ones perceive their life after they leave this physical plane. What they think is important once they are removed from the addiction of being human and not seeing everything very clearly. There are really no wrong or right decisions. If we think things through and decide on a path, have the experience of that path and be grateful for the experiences..... then we did well. Live is about being present for the experience. Period.
When we finish our life and look back at our choices and the experiences that resulted from those choices, what do you think we will see and feel? Will we wish we made a different choice? Or will we conceder how we handled each choice? Did we do it with an open heart for ourselves and others around us. Did we have grace or where crazy, bumbling, stupid heads about the whole thing. I know that sounds silly, but it is real. We will look upon how we lived life with compassion no matter which way we went or how we behaved. Humans are far from perfect. We are here to make mistakes or we would only be having half the human experience. Love, pain, wonder, boredom, soft, hard, full, empty, happy, sad........ on and on it goes.... everyday. Decide and then live without looking backwards. Be in the moment as much as you can. That way when you time comes you are aware of what is going on. Kiss your body good bye and say job well done..... No matter what. Live your decisions fully! Love your LIfe!
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My name is Christina Laughton. I live in the country in NC. I have made it a long standing practice study ways to achieve health and peace in life through allowing your true self to be seen. I have fostered many unusual abilities such as seeing, hearing and sensing the usually unseen. Then finding the understanding of how to apply this to your life, to bring a balance to your mind, body and spirit. When in alignment with yourself you will always bring healing to all parts of your life.
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